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Category: Life in the USA: The Good

The wedding

Published: March 22, 2021 / Updated: March 22, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

I’m hoping you’ll forgive me. I’ll let my pictures do the talking today. Yes, they are blurry, but so is the memory of my wedding day. More than 15 years have passed. I do remember, though, that there was laughter, there was joy, there were tears of happiness. We ate, we danced, we kissed, we […]

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my husband, my wife, the good the bad and the ugly

Ready

Published: March 15, 2021 / Updated: March 15, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

Kristina was here. The one who started it all. The other Kristina was also here. The one who spent the summer in Petoskey with me and braved the cold winter there, too. Amongst my sister, my mother and myself, we would call them the ‘tall Kristina’ and the ‘short Kristina’. Years later I met Christine, […]

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50 Shades of Gray, beach wedding, Billy Joel, The day before the wedding

The rocky road

Published: March 8, 2021 / Updated: March 8, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Bad, Life in the USA: The Good

Let’s be honest here. I’m not the best driver in the world. I’m not the worst, either. Hilton Head Island that fall had the bumpiest roads for me. The plantations on the island are beautiful and with lots of recreational areas. The houses are huge, but so is the space between them. The mail boxes, […]

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Hilton Head Island plantation, hit and run, rocky road

Life in NYC: the good

Published: February 18, 2021 / Updated: February 22, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

My life in NYC was many things. What it wasn’t was ordinary and uneventful. Our first place to live was a basement apartment. For those who are not sure what it is, imagine opening the building door and going down, instead of going up. Our one window was on the same level as the street. […]

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Astoria, Food in NYC, Life in NYC, Rockefeller Center

One night in HHI

Published: February 15, 2021 / Updated: February 15, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

Call me a believer in fairy tales. Tell me I watch too many rom-coms and don’t have a clue about what a real relationship is about. Whenever I meet a man (not too often during these pandemic times) and fall in love (way too often no matter what times) I always think THAT man is […]

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believer in fairy tales, chocolate cake, Dream, engaged, NYC

Signs of trouble

Published: February 9, 2021 / Updated: February 13, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Bad, Life in the USA: The Good

To be honest with you, all I want today is a day off. One day full of nothing but rest. Sure, a couple of massages would be great, a total makeover is recommended, some TLC is definitely needed. But as long as I don’t have to cook or clean, for a day, I’ll be happy. […]

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back then, living the dream, signs of trouble in a relationship

My second time

Published: January 27, 2021 / Updated: February 2, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

What if I had not gone back to the States the second time? Would I have found (and got to keep) my real love? Would I have seen more of the world? Would I have gone through less pain? No point in asking myself that, I know. Still, I wonder. If I had not gone […]

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bakery shop, what if, winter in Michigan

American boy

Published: January 25, 2021 / Updated: January 25, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

Take me on a trip, I’d like to go some dayTake me to New York, I’d love to see L.A.I really want to come kick it with youYou’ll be my American boy, American boy – Estelle (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1Hvrr2tpDQ) It started with me getting the same days off as him. Later – a trip to the farmers’ […]

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American boy, chef, Estelle, meant to be

My first time

Published: January 18, 2021 / Updated: January 18, 2021 Vilma Life in the USA: The Good

What’s your most memorable summer? Mine is the one I got to spend in Petoskey, MI. The summer of many firsts. Eager to see the world I listened to Kristina’s advice (https://restlessinlove.com/kristina/) and packed my bags for the summer. USA it is. I put a smile on my face to last 3 entire months and […]

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Petoskey, student exchange program, summer in the USA

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